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WhateverWorks · 36-40
Short answer? IMO Sure, you can be disrespectful and a moment of emotion, make amends, commit to doing better in the future, but malice is different, especially rationalized malice. You can be attached to them and care about them a lot, be sexually attracted, all those good feeling things, but a huge part of ‘love’ is an investment in their well-being and happiness. If someone has a pattern of hurting others, then they need to work that shit out in order to have love with someone.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@WhateverWorks I absolutely agree. Some people need to work on themselves internally before getting into a serious long term relationship. Thanks for sharing. 🙂