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JustNik · 51-55, F
Oh we’re twisty turny creatures so I think all kinds of variables are possible. My husband treats strangers more respectfully than the people he says he loves, but he seems to have serious issues with any kind of vulnerability so it’s a sad result of his insecurity I think. For my part, I will always love the man I know is in there and feel compassion for him. I can respect him because he’s human but his behavior damages that and makes it a struggle. I don’t overtly or purposely treat him disrespectfully, although I know I’ve caught myself not taking his feelings into consideration because he always keeps himself so separate. We’re flawed, multifaceted creatures, and sometimes the facets line up better than others.