If a man cheats on his wife?

And says he isn’t attracted to the other woman anymore, is he lying? Does attraction just disappear?

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Men compartmentalize sex.

I cheated on my long term gf. The other woman was a nothing more than a socket I used for entertainment. I felt very badly that I hurt my gfs feeling so badly. I tried to make it up to her and she forgave me. I assured her the other woman meant nothing to me at all and that she had nothing to ever fear that I would ever leave her. I apologized for being immature and greedy. I made many overtures to rebuild the relationship. I think it worked. I was eventually forgiven.

SweetBee · 26-30, F

@Muthafukajones my husband cheated on me so I wanna ask…have you cheated again ? Idk sorry for asking but my husband would always tell me she was nothing more but someone he messed with but somehow still looks for her like on social media. I don’t care no more because I don’t love him. But I wonder why ? He still denies that he’s into her like I’ve even said “idc just say the truth it’s not like it’s News anymore “

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@SweetBee He might just check her out out of curiosity. He might be telling the truth that’s he’s not interested. I completely lost interest in the one I was screwing around with when my gf found out. Seeing how much it hurt her made me repulsed by the other woman.

summerlove · 31-35, F

@Muthafukajones he told me he still wanted to be friends. He said no one can tell him who he can be friends with that included his wife. He told me hates himself for hurting me and that I matter to him. Does he care about me?

SweetBee · 26-30, F

@Muthafukajones thank you. Although I’ll never love him the way I used to, and still have resentment for what he did…your response actually gave me some kind of relief and idk why lol but thank you.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@summerlove You absolutely can tell him who he can be friends with. He must severe all ties with her. If he doesn’t then he doesn’t respect you and it is over. I’m sorry but I severed all ties when my gf found out. She asked me too but I would have done it anyways out of respect.

summerlove · 31-35, F

@Muthafukajones if he still wanted to be friends with me and even asked how I was doing a few days after I told him I hate him for hurting me so much, does he still care about me on some level? Does he still think about me? We no longer talk.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@summerlove You can’t go back. He’s your husband? There is no being friends. He ends it completely and forgets about that other woman. It’s up to you if you want him around in some capacity but friends doesn’t seem like enough.

summerlove · 31-35, F

@Muthafukajones I was the other woman. He never told me he was married. I found out and confronted him about it.

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