A person whom you had developed an affection suddenly ghosted you for 6 months.
Now he wants to connect again.What should be your ideal response?
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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
Colonelmustardseed · 36-40
Caleidoscope · F
@Colonelmustardseed I have no clue 🤷♀️,maybe a part of his nature to dominate the relationship?
Colonelmustardseed · 36-40
@Caleidoscope Could be. It could also be that he was dealing with some things in his life and wasn’t up to talking. I know a couple people like that. Depression trait where they fall off the face of the earth. Or it could even be that he decided to talk to someone else for a while or lost interest, and is suddenly interested again. Never know till you ask what happened. If it’s something like that, it’d be best to cut ties with him.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
solitaire · 41-45, F
The best response is NOT TO RESPOND. I knew a person online who'd ghost and come back and ghost and come back. I stopped responding and as far as I'm concerned they are out of my life for good. I was so trauma bonded and did not realise that this is also a form of emotional abuse
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
deadgerbil · 22-25
Thefreckledgirl1 · 18-21, F
thinkingoutloud · F
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
Tetsuya · 51-55, M
@SumKindaMunster while that was my first reaction, there is the 0.01% chance it wasn't anything the guy could have done about it ie jail time, he is in the military etc...
the OP would have to put her big girl panties on and ask to know for sure
and of course immediately report back to SW
the OP would have to put her big girl panties on and ask to know for sure
and of course immediately report back to SW
Fertilization · 36-40, F
BiasForAction · M
Caleidoscope · F
@deathfairy and she dumped him ?
it prob didn’t work out for them.
OR he does like you and wants to compare you and her and see who he wants to choose.. @Caleidoscope
OR he does like you and wants to compare you and her and see who he wants to choose.. @Caleidoscope
Lilnonames · F