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Aysel · F
Is this your first real relationship?
Aysel · F
@Fifidog Understandable It's your first relationship, and you have nothing to compare it with, but sweet girl, this isn't caring behaviour; it's toxic behaviour. Sometimes we don't see this because we are wearing our rose-coloured glasses, so everything is in love mode. I'd say to tell him how it makes you feel, but if you don't feel safe doing so, ask a friend to support you by being with you. If you really do feel afraid, the best option would be to leave; it's going to hurt, but you will see with time that it wasn't meant to be because caring lovers don't behave in a toxic way.