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Ended a 16 Years of Marriage

Basically I am a victim of an online fraud/scam. I lost almost all of my life personal savings. I told my husband about it, but instead, he went mental at me, and did not keep it confidential from our daughter. I told him because I wanted a support from him. My daughter got involved and they both started harassing me. I rang 999 to report as I did not feel safe. I was accused by both of them, that I never contributed anything in our household, despite the fact that I pay for groceries, eating out and leisures. I also furnished most of the major things in the house including all the kitchen essentials. But it's all nothing. My husband is more bothered about me, having a personal savings.

The police officers took me to my friend's house so that I could be away from the situation. I was about to leave yesterday got back home to say bye to my daughter, but she decided to come with me instead. She said she wants to move back to the Philippines with me.

I feel nothing for my husband anymore. All I feel right now is anger and my fixed decision to move on. I feel like, the situation became the turning point, to stop the cycle of the toxic relationship. After 16 years of marriage, I finally concluded that my husband, never loved me.

TBH, I really don't want to stay with my husband anymore. This is the end. 16 years is enough.馃槶
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Howudoin41-45, M
It's a terrible feeling, wife and i of 20 years are on the rocks. Don't know if we'll make it.馃槳
MontanamanM
@Howudoin Are you both aware of the key issues within your marriage? You both have to be willing to fight For the marriage. It's a battle and the struggle is real. 馃馃鉂わ笍鉂わ笍
Howudoin41-45, M
@Montanaman thanks, we've been talking more and pulled it back from the brink. Got more work ahead of us though
MontanamanM
@Howudoin Positive thoughts馃鉂わ笍 and prayers 馃檹 鉂わ笍20 years is too much to let go of. Too much history. Too many memories. 馃鉂わ笍