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Ended a 16 Years of Marriage

Basically I am a victim of an online fraud/scam. I lost almost all of my life personal savings. I told my husband about it, but instead, he went mental at me, and did not keep it confidential from our daughter. I told him because I wanted a support from him. My daughter got involved and they both started harassing me. I rang 999 to report as I did not feel safe. I was accused by both of them, that I never contributed anything in our household, despite the fact that I pay for groceries, eating out and leisures. I also furnished most of the major things in the house including all the kitchen essentials. But it's all nothing. My husband is more bothered about me, having a personal savings.

The police officers took me to my friend's house so that I could be away from the situation. I was about to leave yesterday got back home to say bye to my daughter, but she decided to come with me instead. She said she wants to move back to the Philippines with me.

I feel nothing for my husband anymore. All I feel right now is anger and my fixed decision to move on. I feel like, the situation became the turning point, to stop the cycle of the toxic relationship. After 16 years of marriage, I finally concluded that my husband, never loved me.

TBH, I really don't want to stay with my husband anymore. This is the end. 16 years is enough.馃槶
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SW-User
Sorry you are going through this. But you know what's good for yourself and your daughter. You say you're Planning on moving back to the Philippines? Where are you now? Is this going to be a big adjustment for the two of you?
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@SW-User It's not a big adjustment as my daughter lived here for 5 years in the past. She's happier here as she feels at home. She said England, never felt home.馃挋馃憦馃徎
SW-User
@Bittersweet84 so you are back now? It's good that you are happier there
JustJanF
@Bittersweet84 England isn't quite the place it used to be :(
SW-User
@JustJan should try Canada lol
JustJanF
@SW-User I want a hot temprature country if I leave the UK x
SW-User
@JustJan like somewhere warm? If so i totally agree
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@JustJan I'll miss my British friends, my former branch manager still messages me to check if I'm alright. But, living in the UK was not really what I wanted. To be fair, we are not better off when we were there.
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@SW-User Yes, it's always warm here outside.
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@JustJan It's always warm here. 馃榿
SW-User
@Bittersweet84 always wanted to visit the Philippines.