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Ended a 16 Years of Marriage

Basically I am a victim of an online fraud/scam. I lost almost all of my life personal savings. I told my husband about it, but instead, he went mental at me, and did not keep it confidential from our daughter. I told him because I wanted a support from him. My daughter got involved and they both started harassing me. I rang 999 to report as I did not feel safe. I was accused by both of them, that I never contributed anything in our household, despite the fact that I pay for groceries, eating out and leisures. I also furnished most of the major things in the house including all the kitchen essentials. But it's all nothing. My husband is more bothered about me, having a personal savings.

The police officers took me to my friend's house so that I could be away from the situation. I was about to leave yesterday got back home to say bye to my daughter, but she decided to come with me instead. She said she wants to move back to the Philippines with me.

I feel nothing for my husband anymore. All I feel right now is anger and my fixed decision to move on. I feel like, the situation became the turning point, to stop the cycle of the toxic relationship. After 16 years of marriage, I finally concluded that my husband, never loved me.

TBH, I really don't want to stay with my husband anymore. This is the end. 16 years is enough.馃槶
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Jenny123451-55, F
Do you not think your husband has the right to be furious?
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@Jenny1234 He doesn't have any right to verbally abuse me because in the first place, it's not his money. He didn't earn the money and his finances were not affected at all. And also I have my fair share with the bills and I pay for the groceries and holidays.
Verbal abuse to anyone, is not an excuse at all. We don't have joint savings account, as he stole the funds from there ,way back 2014. I don't know how much he has in his bank and he doesn't know how much I have in my bank.
MontanamanM
@Jenny1234 馃槥馃鉂わ笍
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@Montanaman Thanks Mate馃挐
Jenny123451-55, F
@Montanaman she鈥檚 not my friend. Clearly
Kstrong56-60, F
@Montanaman very wise words
MontanamanM
@Kstrong from Jenny1234馃憤馃槆鉂わ笍
Jenny123451-55, F
@Bittersweet84 he does not have the right to verbally abuse you but he does have the right to be very angry. Marriage is a partnership whether you keep your money together or separate. by you putting yourself in this position to be taken advantage of shows him that you don鈥檛 have good judgement and could potentially put him and your daughter at risk in future financial situations.
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@Jenny1234 I still don't agree with your opinion, but you're entitled to it.
Thanks.馃憤馃挋