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Ended a 16 Years of Marriage

Basically I am a victim of an online fraud/scam. I lost almost all of my life personal savings. I told my husband about it, but instead, he went mental at me, and did not keep it confidential from our daughter. I told him because I wanted a support from him. My daughter got involved and they both started harassing me. I rang 999 to report as I did not feel safe. I was accused by both of them, that I never contributed anything in our household, despite the fact that I pay for groceries, eating out and leisures. I also furnished most of the major things in the house including all the kitchen essentials. But it's all nothing. My husband is more bothered about me, having a personal savings.

The police officers took me to my friend's house so that I could be away from the situation. I was about to leave yesterday got back home to say bye to my daughter, but she decided to come with me instead. She said she wants to move back to the Philippines with me.

I feel nothing for my husband anymore. All I feel right now is anger and my fixed decision to move on. I feel like, the situation became the turning point, to stop the cycle of the toxic relationship. After 16 years of marriage, I finally concluded that my husband, never loved me.

TBH, I really don't want to stay with my husband anymore. This is the end. 16 years is enough.馃槶
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MontanamanM
I'm so sorry that you have to go through this.
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Hugs 馃 and prayers 馃檹
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@Montanaman Thank you. Things have been so rough lately.馃槩
MontanamanM
@Bittersweet84 if you need someone to vent to, feel free to hit me up. No weird shit. Just compassion. 馃
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@Montanaman Thank you so much.
MontanamanM
@Bittersweet84 it's nothing, I just feel for you in a marriage that you've invested 16 years in. Hard choices but definitely the right one i feel. 馃槥馃挃鉂わ笍馃馃
As far as your mistake getting scammed, it's happened to us before. We've come out of it to recover mostly back to normal. 馃馃檹
-Kelly.
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@Montanaman Thanks Kelly. Yes message me anytime.
At the end of the day, money is just money. Some people have worse situations like an illness that cannot be cured. I am still thankful that I'm alive, and I'm still capable of taking care of my daughter. That's all that matters. Life can be cruel sometimes, we just need to move on.
MontanamanM
@Bittersweet84 馃挴 % agree with this.
Good on ya!馃馃馃尮
Kstrong56-60, F
@Bittersweet84 a position attitude despite the storms, youll come out on the other side. Im going thru the similar after 30+ years of marriage
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@Kstrong So sorry to hear this. It's tough but at the end of the day, we are entitled to find peace in our lives.