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Ended a 16 Years of Marriage

Basically I am a victim of an online fraud/scam. I lost almost all of my life personal savings. I told my husband about it, but instead, he went mental at me, and did not keep it confidential from our daughter. I told him because I wanted a support from him. My daughter got involved and they both started harassing me. I rang 999 to report as I did not feel safe. I was accused by both of them, that I never contributed anything in our household, despite the fact that I pay for groceries, eating out and leisures. I also furnished most of the major things in the house including all the kitchen essentials. But it's all nothing. My husband is more bothered about me, having a personal savings.

The police officers took me to my friend's house so that I could be away from the situation. I was about to leave yesterday got back home to say bye to my daughter, but she decided to come with me instead. She said she wants to move back to the Philippines with me.

I feel nothing for my husband anymore. All I feel right now is anger and my fixed decision to move on. I feel like, the situation became the turning point, to stop the cycle of the toxic relationship. After 16 years of marriage, I finally concluded that my husband, never loved me.

TBH, I really don't want to stay with my husband anymore. This is the end. 16 years is enough.馃槶
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Kstrong56-60, F
You and your daughrers safety and sanity are the most important factors, abuse comes in many forms, mental as well as physical. The mental can cause damage that last years as your brain needs to be rewired abd reprogramed to adjust back to normal.
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@Kstrong Yes that's why the best thing for us to do is to move all the way to the other side of the world. It's the only way we can have peace of mind. He is very crafty, he would turn things around by gas lighting me.
Kstrong56-60, F
@Bittersweet84 i understand ... going thru something very similar
Nick161-69, M
@Kstrong stay strong.