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Ended a 16 Years of Marriage

Basically I am a victim of an online fraud/scam. I lost almost all of my life personal savings. I told my husband about it, but instead, he went mental at me, and did not keep it confidential from our daughter. I told him because I wanted a support from him. My daughter got involved and they both started harassing me. I rang 999 to report as I did not feel safe. I was accused by both of them, that I never contributed anything in our household, despite the fact that I pay for groceries, eating out and leisures. I also furnished most of the major things in the house including all the kitchen essentials. But it's all nothing. My husband is more bothered about me, having a personal savings.

The police officers took me to my friend's house so that I could be away from the situation. I was about to leave yesterday got back home to say bye to my daughter, but she decided to come with me instead. She said she wants to move back to the Philippines with me.

I feel nothing for my husband anymore. All I feel right now is anger and my fixed decision to move on. I feel like, the situation became the turning point, to stop the cycle of the toxic relationship. After 16 years of marriage, I finally concluded that my husband, never loved me.

TBH, I really don't want to stay with my husband anymore. This is the end. 16 years is enough.馃槶
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JustJanF
I hope you can recover something from the Scammer , your Husband was probably in shock if it was a very large amount your daughter got caught up in the moment and the same reason probably shocked that you could fall for this Scam, she has calmed down now and realises she is better of with you and it will be forgotten in the course of time , I hope things work out for you and your family in the best way that suits you all to late now but anyone asking for money no matter how small online is a block or alarm bells at least
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@JustJan I get that. He was shocked. But it was not his money, and there was no need to give verbal abuse all over again and again. And to involve a child in the situation, it was totally too much to take.
JustJanF
@Bittersweet84 before we went our seperate ways my ex and I consider it all as Family Money but niether of us stole from each other , and your right she shouldn't of been involved , but she does know she is better off with you than him , make sure you get half of the house hold contents and the house if it is being sold
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@JustJan His money is just his money.

I have no time anymore to deal with the things that I bought for this house. He can have it all, since he accused me of not contributing anything in the household.

Anyway good night from here. 馃挄