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Ended a 16 Years of Marriage

Basically I am a victim of an online fraud/scam. I lost almost all of my life personal savings. I told my husband about it, but instead, he went mental at me, and did not keep it confidential from our daughter. I told him because I wanted a support from him. My daughter got involved and they both started harassing me. I rang 999 to report as I did not feel safe. I was accused by both of them, that I never contributed anything in our household, despite the fact that I pay for groceries, eating out and leisures. I also furnished most of the major things in the house including all the kitchen essentials. But it's all nothing. My husband is more bothered about me, having a personal savings.

The police officers took me to my friend's house so that I could be away from the situation. I was about to leave yesterday got back home to say bye to my daughter, but she decided to come with me instead. She said she wants to move back to the Philippines with me.

I feel nothing for my husband anymore. All I feel right now is anger and my fixed decision to move on. I feel like, the situation became the turning point, to stop the cycle of the toxic relationship. After 16 years of marriage, I finally concluded that my husband, never loved me.

TBH, I really don't want to stay with my husband anymore. This is the end. 16 years is enough.馃槶
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Guardian56-60, M
May I ask do you have an interracial marriage?
SW-User
@Guardian Correct me if I鈥檓 wrong, but I think it鈥檚 a relationship with an America, aka a white man. She鈥檚 moving back to Philippines to be safe from him. The relationship was built on money or hope for a better life from the start. It wasn鈥檛 built on love, so I鈥檓 not surprised.
Bittersweet8436-40, F
@SW-User You are wrong. I never wanted to settle here the UK for a better life. My ex-husband is not an old man. We are the same age. And also you were wrong by making assumption that anyone could have a better life here by moving in a country like the UK. I had a top job in the Philippines before I met my ex, I moved here for the sake of him. This place never felt home. I am not somebody who's not educated and I did not come here for the sake of MONEY. I really don't appreciate your comment. 馃馃槨 I work here earn my own income and pay bills. I don't just sit at home, doing nothing.
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