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Ended a 16 Years of Marriage

Basically I am a victim of an online fraud/scam. I lost almost all of my life personal savings. I told my husband about it, but instead, he went mental at me, and did not keep it confidential from our daughter. I told him because I wanted a support from him. My daughter got involved and they both started harassing me. I rang 999 to report as I did not feel safe. I was accused by both of them, that I never contributed anything in our household, despite the fact that I pay for groceries, eating out and leisures. I also furnished most of the major things in the house including all the kitchen essentials. But it's all nothing. My husband is more bothered about me, having a personal savings.

The police officers took me to my friend's house so that I could be away from the situation. I was about to leave yesterday got back home to say bye to my daughter, but she decided to come with me instead. She said she wants to move back to the Philippines with me.

I feel nothing for my husband anymore. All I feel right now is anger and my fixed decision to move on. I feel like, the situation became the turning point, to stop the cycle of the toxic relationship. After 16 years of marriage, I finally concluded that my husband, never loved me.

TBH, I really don't want to stay with my husband anymore. This is the end. 16 years is enough.😭
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Richard65 · M
Did your husband not know you had your own personal savings? Was that the main issue that caused his anger, the fact you had your own money? I'm just trying to understand why he was so angry at you for being the victim of a scam.
Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F
@Richard65 We have our own personal savings account. We don't know each other's finances. I don't see his bank statements and he doesn't check mine. The reason for my personal savings, is because, he stole a lot of funds from our joint savings account. And yes, he doesn't know I have savings. We both have our own jobs, and my salary goes to my personal current account.
Richard65 · M
@Bittersweet84 you're better off without him. I'm sorry you've had to deal with all of that. Very best wishes to you and your daughter.
Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F
@Richard65 Thank you so much.👏🏻💙
Fairydust · F
@Bittersweet84

Just a thought….

if he stole from your saying account, could he be the ones that scammed you online?
Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F
@Fairydust I absolutely don't know. I never trusted him when it comes to money.