Boyfriend says I need to EARN his love?? He tells me about all these random girls he’s in to, t...

You don't earn love. Love is there or it isn't. Seems he would have a pretty good deal going if you were constantly trying to get him to love you, he can ask and get anything he desires. I think he's wanting a servant as his girlfriend.

ImplodingVoices · F

Run away from him as though you are on fire.

SW-User

Run, and run fast.

Onestarlitnight

Yes, it’s definitely toxic and a huge red flag.
First you will “earn” his love and then you’ll earn a beating.
That’s how that works.

Drop him from your life and don’t let him back in