I don’t understand age gap relationships. I’m not in the market for one, but I look at young women and they appear to be headaches and drama.

Ok I have an age gap relationship. It's great. 14 yrs difference. Maturity is what makes it work. Men her age were /are acting as children. Her maturity was well above theirs. So an older man was needed. I fit the role. Secure, grounded,direction picked and focused. Not out to control but share life with.(control is something else as you see My profile) but we work in tandem.
Now just chasing to chase,headache but to actually be above the waist relationship,it works for us