any other women that thought about being the provider?

me n my BF are currently talking about having kid(s) and knowing how family centred he is and seeing how great he is with his nieces/nephews little cousins etc i can't help but wonder if he might be better suited to being the one at home while i work. it was little more than a passing thought but can't help but wonder if anyone else has this arrangement n could offer thoughts/experiences?

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in10RjFox · M

It didn't happen as an arrangement but was an early wfh IT professional who raised twin boys while my ex-wife was working. My projects were long gestation and her's was regular income and we managed quite well with the policy that children should never get affected in anyway.

So all depends on your understanding.

in10RjFox · M

@in10RjFox you would have fairly gauged by now how he manages a household, like whether he cooks , cleans and lives on his own etc.

As managing household is a different burden as compared to being good with children.