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I'm starting to feel completely secure in my relationship and it feels so new

I already felt secure but I've never felt this secure with someone before in a relationship. I used to worry about being abandoned because of my childhood and past relationships. Or there were always fights or something going on to where it was hard to relax. It doesn't mean the fear disappears. I just learn to deal with it more positively to where it doesn't ruin my experiences.

I trust my partner more and more as time goes on.

Being able to fully love someone without fears getting in the way is such an amazing experience. It's being able to love with your entire being. And it is the most freeing experience. And even if it were to end I feel I would have no regrets because I loved with every single piece of myself.
He has helped me heal so much, he's made my heart softer and he's been like honey ontop of my bitterness.

We're going past two years and things feel amazing as if we just started dating yesterday. Except without the fears of the unknown.
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Aweeee novie ive always wanted this for you
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
This is good. Just know down the line, your mind is gunna test the things it knows.

It'll randomly way down the road be like "Gah dayum gurl. Hold on, now. We remember instability in the far past. Can we REALLY be sure that this joint is just what it is??"

And you're gunna need to remind yourself that yes, yes it is what it is, as unfamiliar as it is

Then that closure really hits

Unless that's the closure ur talkin about rn :v
Then yes. This is wonderful
Juvia · 22-25, F
@Iwantyourhotwife Yeee, that's the closure I'm getting I suppose.
It's freeing. I still feel anxious but I also know my anxiety doesn't really mean there is something wrong with the relationship(seeing as nothing has changed between me and him other than getting closer) so it's gotten much easier to get over my anxiety as time goes on.
AndrewF · 51-55
I wish I have someone who were as patient on me. Now I'm compensating with adult dating apps.
Juvia · 22-25, F
@AndrewF At one point I didn't have someone like that. So there is hope for everyone lol

 
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