No one I’m in a relationship with gives me enough mental stimulation!!! It’s SO ANNOYING

I need some sort of adrenaline or stimulation. My brain feels like it’s lacking something or craving something. Like it’s low on something or something and then I get like a stuck or bored feeling. I’m not having fun in life
I’m bored no matter what I do. I’m posting this In relationships cause I don’t know if I’m picking the wrong people for me to be in relationships with and that’s why I find them boring, or if I’m the one whose boring, or if I have some sort of chemical low in my brain making me feel bored. Pleaseeee if someone else has experienced how I’m feeling reach out. I don’t know why I’m feeling this way but I just know I hate it. I wish I knew why I feel this way cause I think it could better my relationships moving forward

SW-User

I wonder if part of the problem is that you expect the person you are dating to meet your need for mental stimulation. No one person can give you everything you need in life, and this whole notion of the soulmate who meets your sexual, emotional, intellectual, and practical needs is a mistake of our culture. Maybe enjoy romantic relationships for what they do give you, but feed your brain elsewhere.