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WhateverWorks · 36-40
Me personally? I wouldn’t date someone who can’t share responsibilities as needed. Present relationship, I do the majority of the cooking because I’m home first, but if I don’t feel like it for whatever reason I know I can count on him to handle things without it being an issue.
That said… lots of guys have the cooking skills of a 12 year old. The question is whether he’s open to learning and cooking together.. and.. if you’re open to learning how to get more into cooking with him.
Alternately, it’s worth asking yourself if you’d be fine marrying someone who you know will expect you to handle the responsibility. Cuz.. if not expect that to be something you regularly fight about.
Or.. you guys could have a conversation where you both decide neither one of you like to cook and will have a huge budget for restaurants.
That said… lots of guys have the cooking skills of a 12 year old. The question is whether he’s open to learning and cooking together.. and.. if you’re open to learning how to get more into cooking with him.
Alternately, it’s worth asking yourself if you’d be fine marrying someone who you know will expect you to handle the responsibility. Cuz.. if not expect that to be something you regularly fight about.
Or.. you guys could have a conversation where you both decide neither one of you like to cook and will have a huge budget for restaurants.