It annoys me when my gf gets mad at me for not having sex with her
Like even when I want to.. her acting like that just makes me not want to anymore 😒
We went to two different parties for Saturday. One with my family & one with hers. Once we got home we got in the shower together then laid down afterwards. Everything was fine & we were both talking all happily. I was struggling to stay awake but still trying to talk anyway. Then next thing I know she starts giving me attitude & she turns her back towards me. She refused to tell me why or what's wrong.. she just kept saying "I'm not talking to you because you'd just get mad at me for having feelings". So I'm just like "goddammit wtf 🤦 I didn't even do anything" & she's just like, "yeah that's the problem".
I already know the problem I guess. Anytime I'm tired as hell & fall asleep without initiating sex, she gets mad at me. I like sex of course but when I'm extremely exhausted I just don't have the energy to start it. I still want it too so I'd easily get into it if she started it.. which I tell her all the time. But when she starts giving me attitude instead it just turns me off completely. Like why would I wanna have sex with you after you're treating me like shit? How's that supposed to help put me in the mood?
I got out of bed & came to sleep on the couch instead. Now it's Sunday morning & I'm going home today. Probably early now because I don't feel like dealing with this dumb shit all day 😮💨 I'm just tired... Like let me be sleepy sometimes 😭 I never get mad at anybody for not having sex with me so I don't see why women tend to think it's okay to act like that. She could easily start it herself & I'd be into it.. but no. It always has to be ME that starts it 😒
Sometimes I just wanna relax while she initiates it too... I work my ass off these days & hardly get any sleep. Doesn't mean I don't want sex. My body just forces me to rest sometimes 😔 I don't get why I have to be punished for that.
We went to two different parties for Saturday. One with my family & one with hers. Once we got home we got in the shower together then laid down afterwards. Everything was fine & we were both talking all happily. I was struggling to stay awake but still trying to talk anyway. Then next thing I know she starts giving me attitude & she turns her back towards me. She refused to tell me why or what's wrong.. she just kept saying "I'm not talking to you because you'd just get mad at me for having feelings". So I'm just like "goddammit wtf 🤦 I didn't even do anything" & she's just like, "yeah that's the problem".
I already know the problem I guess. Anytime I'm tired as hell & fall asleep without initiating sex, she gets mad at me. I like sex of course but when I'm extremely exhausted I just don't have the energy to start it. I still want it too so I'd easily get into it if she started it.. which I tell her all the time. But when she starts giving me attitude instead it just turns me off completely. Like why would I wanna have sex with you after you're treating me like shit? How's that supposed to help put me in the mood?
I got out of bed & came to sleep on the couch instead. Now it's Sunday morning & I'm going home today. Probably early now because I don't feel like dealing with this dumb shit all day 😮💨 I'm just tired... Like let me be sleepy sometimes 😭 I never get mad at anybody for not having sex with me so I don't see why women tend to think it's okay to act like that. She could easily start it herself & I'd be into it.. but no. It always has to be ME that starts it 😒
Sometimes I just wanna relax while she initiates it too... I work my ass off these days & hardly get any sleep. Doesn't mean I don't want sex. My body just forces me to rest sometimes 😔 I don't get why I have to be punished for that.
