Not at all. Why is that the case though?

as long as you two are happy it really doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. move at your own pace

Keep doing whatever’s working for You two.

I’d say ignore what others are saying and don’t care what others think.

You’re both live your lives not anyone else’s.

Whatever works for you both.

It's not lame. It's perfectly okay to go at your own pace.

Being tight or stuck up has nothing to do with having sex. I personally don’t think it’s anyone’s business what happens in the bedroom other than the people in the relationship. I don’t like people who are tight or stuck up though, I think they’re ugly qualities