Is it lame that I’ve been with my girlf for over two years
And we’ve only kissed. Some people say that we’re too tight and stuck up.
22-25, M
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Being tight or stuck up has nothing to do with having sex. I personally don’t think it’s anyone’s business what happens in the bedroom other than the people in the relationship. I don’t like people who are tight or stuck up though, I think they’re ugly qualities
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Thankyou, although we have been called stuck up or snobby quite a few times by people who know us and yes it’s something we don’t like. Our families are well off I suppose so we kind of have a certain standard of style that we keep, maybe it’s from that?@SW-User
SW-User
@Strongtea that’s irrelevant, you can live in those circumstances without being stuck up. And actually those stuck up are usually those who aspire to live life and be seen a certain way rather than those who actually have it where it’s no big deal.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes, I’m not really sure why people call us it, but it doesn’t feel nice. We just try to distance ourselves from them.@SW-User
SW-User
@Strongtea you can do that, but maybe also look at how you talk to people and why they may feel that way. If you are doing something to give that impression and you don’t like it then do something to change it
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Ok, if I really think about it then we were perhaps a little bit snooty in school about what us and our friends wore and who spoke to who etc@SW-User
SW-User
@Strongtea right there, that’s the problem
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh, if I do want to be totally honest, I suppose we both kinda bullied people . 😬@SW-User