Do I have to break up with my gf because she is unemployed and seems unable to find work?

My gf was fired from her job last year on May 1. Her parents currently support her. She in unable to provide anything in our relationship financially and everything we do I have been paying for. I want to do things.. things like travel… and buy a home and move on with adult life.

She is a good girl from a good family. She is young and smart too. I don’t want to leave her but I’m starting to feel compelled.

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MarieUK · 36-40, F

She says "Thanks for being supportive, good to know money is more important too you than Love" bio says your 46-50 and your user name I would say your going to end up alone in life when your in your 60's

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@MarieUK Have you not heard of the movie Horrible Bosses?

MarieUK · 36-40, F

@Muthafukajones ?

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@MarieUK he’s a character in a movie.

MarieUK · 36-40, F

@Muthafukajones haven't seen that movie

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@MarieUK and you thought you’d just judge my user name. You don’t anything about it. My guess is that you are generally quick to judgement about many things. Your posts have been hurtful and aren’t helpful. I am struggling here and although I come on here light heartedly most nights I am in somewhat of a crisis and needed some support.

MarieUK · 36-40, F

@Muthafukajones rather than deflect onto me , maybe read your OP and rewrite it , also you posted it in the open looking for feedback if the feedback isn't what you expected thats life, anyway I am done with this chat now Byeee

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@MarieUK You’re a mean spirited person. It would seem you dislike your own life and enjoy judging others. That’s not what people need. All I asked for was help. You could have ignored but instead you chose to be mean.

Elisbch · M

I don't see where talk like that towards her is necessary. You did put this on an open form and it did sound from the get-go that money was more of a worry than other things.

I haven't been easy on you either. 🤷

All we are doing is stating the facts from what we gather from what you say and give feedback.
My disclaimer is.. I don't know @MarieUK and have never even spoken with her before but don't see how she's been any worse than anyone else, including myself.
.. @Muthafukajones