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in10RjFox · M
Why do you think she would want you as her son's stepdad.. maybe she just wants you as a lover and that too you are not sure yet ..

Just experience all that you get to without any commitment. Cross the bridge when you come to it. Today's world is all about multiple secret lovers.. don't mix things up too early.
onionsonyourburger · 31-35, M
@in10RjFox I don’t want something casual
in10RjFox · M
@onionsonyourburger you may not want something casual, but you can't control the perspective of others. And seriousness get built over time for there is a passing cloud phase in everything. So the art of living is being flexible and not rigid. Every action or inaction of yours has a consequence which you need to face. Many things are beyond our control in life today as people take decisions at rapid pace to fulfill their need for the moment. Long term plans never work and only disappoints and I see many changing plans within a short time. So take it easy.

Carissimi · F
You never had a romantic relationship with Elizabeth, and this new lady, you’ve only known for a week, and you are concerned about being a step dad. Don’t you think you are jumping a bit too far ahead, and too fast?

It seemed you only became depressed when you lost your job, and someone told you that Elizabeth liked you, so I think your emotions are muddled, which is not unusual when you have become unemployed, but all together, it makes you emotionally vulnerable.

Maybe take a step back, and wait until you are in a better frame of mind before getting involved in a relationship. That’s my 2 cents, but it’s your choice.
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
Yes, you may call if you need a closure. But be sure not to get entangled during closure. I think you should talk to Hayley now. Being a step-dad wont be unless you accept her as your wife.
Nick1 · 61-69, M
Try to contact Elizabeth.
If you know her agency name, then just replace that with old agency name. Most government agencies make email name same way. Actually most use two or three method to make email address.
Go with the one who treats you good and with respect.
Good luck.
keep your options open, playa

 
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