Torn between 2 women what should I do?
Hey this is my first post here. I used to be on EP years ago. And this site looks similar. I had a question.
I am autistic in my 30's and single. Never had a girlfriend before. After listening to Jordan Peterson I realized I didnt wanna ever be alone anymore and how miserable I am. Still in college and live alone. I got housing assistance from an local organization last year and my housing navigator was a girl my age named "Elizabeth". She was also autistic and going to the same school for different major and was graduating with her bachelors. She was flirting with me and I didnt realize it until a month after our last meeting. She told me she was leaving to work at CPS. She gave me a black tourmaline to protect me in our last meeting. She said she was an empath. Very sweet girl and I didnt get the message until a month later when I talked about it with someone and they said "hey I think she liked you!" And I got really depressed then I got fired from my long time job and ever since then Ive been in a bad depression.
I was going on apps trying to make friends I met this lady "Hayley" who is a single mom and 4 years older than me with a 6 year old son. Kids dad is still in his sons life after divorce and hes a cop. She is also on the spectrum. We met last Saturday and she initiated and wanted my number. We texted and I texted her yesterday after a week and she was surprised and said she thought I didnt want to text her. We talked on the phone for first time. She wants me to get a job with her company. She says she is moving to my city soon. Shes a social worker.
I like Hayley shes really nice but I dont know if I am ready to be a stepdad to a 6 year old. I also feel like I really need closure with Elizabeth. I cant get her out of my mind. Its now been over a year. What should I do?
I was thinking of calling Elizabeth. There is a public employee directory of government employees. I searched her name and she still works at CPS and I saw her work number. Should I call her? I don't know anyway to get ahold of her because her old email from the housing agency is inactive and she had to turn in her work phone. Or is it a bad idea? I just really need closure with Elizabeth. Even if she rejected me I would feel better but I am afraid of that rejection you know?
I am autistic in my 30's and single. Never had a girlfriend before. After listening to Jordan Peterson I realized I didnt wanna ever be alone anymore and how miserable I am. Still in college and live alone. I got housing assistance from an local organization last year and my housing navigator was a girl my age named "Elizabeth". She was also autistic and going to the same school for different major and was graduating with her bachelors. She was flirting with me and I didnt realize it until a month after our last meeting. She told me she was leaving to work at CPS. She gave me a black tourmaline to protect me in our last meeting. She said she was an empath. Very sweet girl and I didnt get the message until a month later when I talked about it with someone and they said "hey I think she liked you!" And I got really depressed then I got fired from my long time job and ever since then Ive been in a bad depression.
I was going on apps trying to make friends I met this lady "Hayley" who is a single mom and 4 years older than me with a 6 year old son. Kids dad is still in his sons life after divorce and hes a cop. She is also on the spectrum. We met last Saturday and she initiated and wanted my number. We texted and I texted her yesterday after a week and she was surprised and said she thought I didnt want to text her. We talked on the phone for first time. She wants me to get a job with her company. She says she is moving to my city soon. Shes a social worker.
I like Hayley shes really nice but I dont know if I am ready to be a stepdad to a 6 year old. I also feel like I really need closure with Elizabeth. I cant get her out of my mind. Its now been over a year. What should I do?
I was thinking of calling Elizabeth. There is a public employee directory of government employees. I searched her name and she still works at CPS and I saw her work number. Should I call her? I don't know anyway to get ahold of her because her old email from the housing agency is inactive and she had to turn in her work phone. Or is it a bad idea? I just really need closure with Elizabeth. Even if she rejected me I would feel better but I am afraid of that rejection you know?
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