Is setting your boundaries for your partner insecure, controlling, or for protection?

And if you choose, why is that?

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It's to cover your own ass. If you have no boundaries, you get taken advantage of and screwed over by people. You get walked all over like you're stairs or something. It's important to have boundaries.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@IWasCallingYaLarry Exactly. You basically set your example as a leader and being level -headed. Otherwise, you'll be looked down as a fool and someone who's not meant to be in a relationship.

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xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@IWasCallingYaLarry Facts. I'm single for now, but I'll let that woman know what I expect or she's not it for me.

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

@xSiFiGamer2016x I kind of have someone, but taking it slow currently, ya know? And she actually treats me like I'm a human being and we share similar hobbies and interests.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@IWasCallingYaLarry That's good. I'm sure you'll do right by her as she's done good for you. A mutual feeling. 👍

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

@xSiFiGamer2016x I definitely will do my best. I like her quite a bit and she thinks I'm cute, and I find her cute. She has an adorable voice, too and we both like video games and anime, we like the same music, etc.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

@IWasCallingYaLarry Funny. I wouldn't mind a woman who's like that. Y'all definitely gonna be great together. 👍