My husband says he is not physically attracted to me and what should I do to make him get attracted to me?We recently got married.He’s 9yr older to me
26-30, F
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elafina · 36-40, F
I'm so sorry dear.. It's definitely his issues but are you willing to share a life where you would need to put a ton of work in just to make it bareable and perhaps one day it will be good ?
It's totally up to you but from here it sounds like it's going to take long with lots of efforts before this can work in a balanced way....
It's totally up to you but from here it sounds like it's going to take long with lots of efforts before this can work in a balanced way....
elafina · 36-40, F
@DarkHeaven yes but she's just gotten married. I don't know what's more realistic to tell. Run away would be best, but who just gets married and runs away. It takes some time to see things....
Also I have my sister as an example. They had plenty of issues with her husband but she's very aware and tries to make it work. They both do, despite the problems that appear.
Also, not being attracted by your spouse is a more common thing I believe than what's admitted after a few years. This happening too soon, I agree, but there's a tiny possibility to work things out and solve this obstacle once and for all.
What's bothering me but at the same time I think it's good, is this level of honesty to admit something that hurtful.
Also I have my sister as an example. They had plenty of issues with her husband but she's very aware and tries to make it work. They both do, despite the problems that appear.
Also, not being attracted by your spouse is a more common thing I believe than what's admitted after a few years. This happening too soon, I agree, but there's a tiny possibility to work things out and solve this obstacle once and for all.
What's bothering me but at the same time I think it's good, is this level of honesty to admit something that hurtful.