He dumped me

My boyfriend asked me for money tonight
And he was ever so persistent,
But after months of helping him
I finally stood my ground and said No!
He tried all methods, the guilt trip
The tantrum, but when he was sure i was serious about not handing over the cash.
He wrote me this,
It's over you are a very selfish person
I can not continue this relationship
The same person who earlier this evening was sucking up and saying all sorts of compliments and love bombing! In a big way im glad he is out of my life!
Better to be single than manipulated and used

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updown2020 · 61-69, M

Well good for you. I hope he does not have keys to your house and that you have signed Iou’s Because you will need your money back.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@updown2020 You should thank him for doing you a favor for dumping you he was only using you as a ATM anyway. But if he has had access to your house have the locks change just to be save, And change you pins on your ATM cards and check your credit cards to see if you have them ,

CherAdams · 51-55, F

@updown2020 Thank goodness, he never lived with me,
He had my card at one point but I changed it
I was sending him willingly
I was blindsighted

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@CherAdams Well make sure that card is cancelled and change your pins . If you keep cash around your house changes the places because if he watched you where you got it from well he might just break in. I hope you did not co sign anything for him because you would be on the hook for that.