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guy wants to date me already he is moving too fast for me

A guy I’ve been going on dates with (probably about 5 dates we went on) wants to date me already. he is moving too fast for me. The last bf I had was narcissistic and love bombed me so I don’t want to deal with that again. I can’t tell if this new...

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IsaacDeSnuts · 22-25, M

maybe you should talk about it to him

iamBen · M

I think if you feel rushed then it's too fast for you. You might consider telling him you want to go slower and explain what is the right pace for you.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@iamBen that’s what I’ll do. How can I word it

iamBen · M

@Fifidog I can't really say how you should say it. It depends on the nature of your relationship. If it were me, I'd be tactful and honest. I'd say something like, "I'm grateful we are are bonding, but I need more time to get to know each other before going to the next step." If they don't respect that then perhaps the relationship isn't right for you.

LoneVoice

🙄 if you are so popular hot and desirable why are you here?

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@LoneVoice cause I don’t want a committed relationship until we get to know each other more

Teirdalin · 31-35

You've been on five dates with him. You're already dating?

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Teirdalin · 31-35

@southerngent geeze, I'm glad I never had to deal with that. Sounds so expensive.

southerngent · M

@Teirdalin better start saving up

Teirdalin · 31-35

@southerngent
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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

Are you going on dates with other guys? If not, it sounds like you are already dating

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@GJOFJ3 no i haven’t been on many other dates with other guys but I’m not ready to date him yet either until we get to know each other more

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