Does he like me just for my looks?

I’ve been on 5 dates with this guy. He recently texted me and said he can’t wait to see me in a sundress. My past bf was all about looks and it turned me off because he was so obsessed with looks. How do I know if this new guy I’m dating will be all about looks too. He doesn’t seem that way but I don’t know him well enough to know what he’s thinking. How do I respond to his comment “I can’t wait to see you in a sundress.” What should I text back and say?

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BeJeweled · F

You should wear what you want to wear and not be pressurred to wear a sun dress. I just think its too forward of him to ask this early while dating.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@BeJeweled I kind of thought that too but he’s also told me he’s never had a girlfriend before so I wonder if maybe he just doesn’t know what to say