Does he like me just for my looks?

I’ve been on 5 dates with this guy. He recently texted me and said he can’t wait to see me in a sundress. My past bf was all about looks and it turned me off because he was so obsessed with looks. How do I know if this new guy I’m dating will be all about looks too. He doesn’t seem that way but I don’t know him well enough to know what he’s thinking. How do I respond to his comment “I can’t wait to see you in a sundress.” What should I text back and say?

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Rpfun78 · 61-69, M

Men are visual creatures. So I would guess you’re an attractive woman who wants to be known for more than just being attractive. If you like this gentleman enough to go on five dates so far, forgive him for being a visual creature and enjoy.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@Rpfun78 yes that’s a great way to put it, I do want to be known for more than my looks. I want my partner to love me because of who I am as a person.