Does he like me just for my looks?

I’ve been on 5 dates with this guy. He recently texted me and said he can’t wait to see me in a sundress. My past bf was all about looks and it turned me off because he was so obsessed with looks. How do I know if this new guy I’m dating will be all about looks too. He doesn’t seem that way but I don’t know him well enough to know what he’s thinking. How do I respond to his comment “I can’t wait to see you in a sundress.” What should I text back and say?

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deathfairy ·

tell him he will see if he gets it for you. if he wants to focus on your looks, he may as well contribute

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@deathfairy haha that’s for sure. why would he be focusing on my looks though? As we get old looks change I want someone who will love me as a person.