Does he like me just for my looks?

I’ve been on 5 dates with this guy. He recently texted me and said he can’t wait to see me in a sundress. My past bf was all about looks and it turned me off because he was so obsessed with looks. How do I know if this new guy I’m dating will be all about looks too. He doesn’t seem that way but I don’t know him well enough to know what he’s thinking. How do I respond to his comment “I can’t wait to see you in a sundress.” What should I text back and say?

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Lilnonames · F

Sounds like he's telling u what to wear on next date.. To me not good

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@Lilnonames that crossed my mind too but I didn’t know how he meant it. My last bf always wanted me to dress sexy and wear red lipstick and wanted me to dres alike other girls who he liked which we eventually broke up. That’s why I don’t want to deal with another person like him again. I don’t even like wearing dresses. How can I tell if he wants to change what I wear?

NinaTina · 26-30, F

@Fifidog sounds like he wants to show u off to every one.. His trophy girl on his arm