Am I the bad guy?

I friend zoned a guy because I didn’t see us being compatible in the long run. I agreed to stay friends . And then a few weeks later I start dating again and meet an amazing guy . The friend zoned guy keeps asking if I found someone yet and I say no because he was stressed out from losing a job . I finally tell him I’m dating someone and hes suddenly acting suicidal , he’s back on drugs , he lost his job , and hes gambled all his money away . I feel so guilty . But I don’t know how to fix it .

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samanthaX · 41-45, T

But you are not responsible for someone else's life. If he chose to drink, do drugs etc then he chose to do it, you played no part in it. He is clearly a weak individual who can't take responsibility for his own life.

Funlov · M

@samanthaX wrong his a drug abuser addicted big difference o mor then a cross dresser it’s a addiction

samanthaX · 41-45, T

@Funlov so like I said you are NOT responsible for his addiction. Stop blaming yourself.

Funlov · M

@samanthaX I’ve never dun drugs a day in my entire life but I see and feel for them can’t just turn away from them then are sick like others

samanthaX · 41-45, T

@Funlov but yes you can help but you are not responsible for their addictions. He clearly was an addict before she got involved with him.

Funlov · M

@samanthaX can’t say that not say she is to blame god no but who nos when he started

samanthaX · 41-45, T

@Funlov I'm saying no more.

Funlov · M

@samanthaX good move thanks