What does it mean when an Ex hits you up?

Ugh… 😒
So my ex (ok guy, relationship ended on ok terms) Sent me a txt asking if we could talk…
I waited a bit but I did call him back. He’s telling me that he misses me, and that loosing me was the biggest mistake of his life. (I doubt it) And he wants me to give him another chance… ( he ended the relationship btw)

I honestly thinks it’s bs, like no one suddenly txts their ex right? He must have some other intentions in mind 😒

Thoughts, opinions? (Be nice please) 😕

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Thespis · M

Hard to say, I don't know how someone would text in this case and it not be sudden. He could really have those feelings, there's nothing to say it's not genuine. However, nothing to say he's not just saying things to manipulate you, or maybe he just wants a booty call. I would trust your gut, if you're not interested in anything from him then let him know and go on your way. If you think you'd like to get back together, you should take it at your speed with the boundaries you want. Just don't get pushed to something you don't want.

SW-User

@Thespis wow 👏🏻 Yes I definitely understand ☹️ Thank you I’m not gonna get back with him, I know that.
It just bothers me how this made me feel 😒

Thespis · M

@SW-User How did it make you feel hearing from him? If you want to talk about it by DM feel free to message me. I'm happy to listen, you can just vent, process, or if you want I'll offer thoughts and advice.