What does it mean when an Ex hits you up?

Ugh… 😒
So my ex (ok guy, relationship ended on ok terms) Sent me a txt asking if we could talk…
I waited a bit but I did call him back. He’s telling me that he misses me, and that loosing me was the biggest mistake of his life. (I doubt it) And he wants me to give him another chance… ( he ended the relationship btw)

I honestly thinks it’s bs, like no one suddenly txts their ex right? He must have some other intentions in mind 😒

Thoughts, opinions? (Be nice please) 😕

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Teslin · M

Well, he may be sincere in his intentions. You said your relationship ended well.
My thought is that it totally depends on where YOU are right now. If you have moved on, then let him know this.
But, if you are asking here on SW, you must be thinking about it? Good luck in whatever decision you make.

SW-User

@Teslin exactly, it ended on ok terms but he ended it. It took me a while to get back on my feet.
And honestly I’m over him, I still care for him and wish him the best, but only as a friend nothing more.
Then why am I feeling all flustered about it if my mind is made up 🙄😒

Teslin · M

@SW-User Sounds like you were hurt when he ended it. As you noted, "OK" terms.
You probably afraid to get hurt again. You don't trust that the same will happen again.
Move on !!

SW-User

@Teslin You’re right, he ended it, I got hurt.
And I moved on but now that he’s back all these emotions kinda came idk 🙈

Teslin · M

@SW-User If you let him back in, take him back on your terms.
No sex for 12 weeks
See him when you are free.

SW-User

@Teslin I’m not talking him back, I know. I just hate it how he came back all of a sudden and I feel like ugh 🙈

Teslin · M

@SW-User Good for you.
I think most people would be conflicted as you are.

SW-User

@Teslin thank you, my mind is sure, but my heart is dumb and blind because it can only feel, it cannot see 😒🙈