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Does a man truly love his wife?

If he chose to cheat on her repeatedly? The guy still talks to the woman he cheated on her with and even if his wife doesn’t want him talking to her, he still will because he says no one tells him who he can and can’t be friends with? Yet he claims he is in love with his wife and wants to be with her. Is that really true love?
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
No. Throw him back, he is not big enough. He should be somebody else's problem.
NinaTina · 26-30, F
@FlowersNButterflies and the woman he cheats on should know he will cheat on her as well.
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
@NinaTina Yes. Cheaters cheat. Many of us had to learn this lesson.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
A better question would be, “Does he respect his wife?”. No, no he does not.
TexChik · F
Easy. NO! When you are in love with someone, you would rather cut your arm off than lose them. Engaging in activity guaranteed to ruin the relationship would never even be a thought, much less done.
Mardrae · F
Not at all. If you’re in love with someone, you want no one but them. You might find others attractive, but if you truly love someone, you would never cheat on them.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
💯 @Lilymoon
rmskys · 18-21, F
friend, honestly? the way I see it, everyone is free to do what they want, but in this situation it's more a matter of empathy and respect. Tell me, why keep in touch with a person who does harm to the person he so secretly claims to love? if he really loved, he would see how much it could affect the relationship and he would have already made his choice. btw, if he really loved, he wouldn't even have cheated to begin with
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
He has a personality disorder and definitely a narcissist.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
It means that he likes her more than he respects you.
Time to bag up the trash and drag it to the curb.
SW-User
There are levels of course. When a man cheats it's usually just sex. Men don't form emotional bonds over sex so it's usually like using the other person as human masturbator.

Anything like what you described though is nothing more than plain disrespect and there can be no love without respect.
rmskys · 18-21, F
I think we subject ourselves to a lot of shitty situations with shitty people. she's still with him and that's honestly sad, she deserves better than someone who makes her feel so small
IM5688 · 61-69, M
This is not what love is about.
This is not what a marriage is about.
A man or husband who thinks it is, is a man or husband you need to get rid of.
Fullmetal · 46-50, M
I think just flirting is ok. It doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat your meals at home!
rmskys · 18-21, F
@Fullmetal i disagree but i loved the phrase KSJKAJSKSKS HOW AMAZING
SW-User
No. He doesn't even love himself. She should get as far away from him as possible and never adknowledge his filthy existence again .
RedBaron · M
You should ask him.
RedBaron · M
@rmskys What's it to you?
rmskys · 18-21, F
@RedBaron this guy definitely doesn't love her, and if what he says he feels is love, then he doesn't respect her enough. in the end the answer is obvious: she should leave him and find something better or be self-sufficient alone
RedBaron · M
@rmskys But what's it to you?
Spotpot · 41-45, M
Alot of wifes cheat on their husbands these days.
A pimps love is different than a squares love……
jimjim1969 · M
No, lust is powerful

 
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