Would you find this odd?

If having sex with someone else, is not part of their arrangement, then why would she care? Shouldn't her first course of action, to ask him to move out? Better yet, he's gone for a couple of weeks with the guys, so she can move his stuff into a storage facility, put the charges on his credit card, change the home locks, and tape an envelope to the door, with the key to the storage locker in it.

All marriages are different.
Some couples take a holiday apart from each other every year.

I know one fellow who goes to the Phillip Island motorbike races. He gets to enjoy a hobby that his wife can't stand, and she gets to play music and sing in the local choir which he can't stand.

Think about how you both looked when you said your marriage vows. You were both liars and had no intention of keeping your vows. Remember that when you get married again.

I think if he cared about the marriage anymore he wouldn’t have cheated 🤷🏻‍♀️

[c=800000]Unless she told him she needed some alone time to process things, I would think it is odd. [/c]

No. You’re done. Get a lawyer or go the mediation route and save some money.

If he wants to fix it, absolutely, he should not be going.

[quote]Would you find this odd? If a guy does this, does he even care about the marriage anymore? Shouldn’t he be trying to fix it instead of going away with his guy friends?[/quote]

Yes. Yes. Yes!!!!