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ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I've had two actually. Both parted by distance.
The first was my first, actually. We met online, got along great, and had a ton in common. I was 19 and she was 17, so she was the experienced one between us. She broke up with me when she went to join the army. There she met the man who would be her husband. She later sent me a heartfelt message that I brought a positive light into her life and showed her what love was and that she deserved it. I was both happy and envious that I wasn't the one who she chose in the end.
The second was an eight hour drive away. So much more easily done over weekends and holidays. I went to visit her and got a kidney stone and ended up medicated out of my mind the whole trip. I was told she didn't real feel the chemistry. I did not want to be that guy who creeps after the fact, so I respected her decision and stepped back. She also ended up going into the army and met her to be husband.
I guess it's for the better that I'm too old to be dating military joining age girls now, heh.
The first was my first, actually. We met online, got along great, and had a ton in common. I was 19 and she was 17, so she was the experienced one between us. She broke up with me when she went to join the army. There she met the man who would be her husband. She later sent me a heartfelt message that I brought a positive light into her life and showed her what love was and that she deserved it. I was both happy and envious that I wasn't the one who she chose in the end.
The second was an eight hour drive away. So much more easily done over weekends and holidays. I went to visit her and got a kidney stone and ended up medicated out of my mind the whole trip. I was told she didn't real feel the chemistry. I did not want to be that guy who creeps after the fact, so I respected her decision and stepped back. She also ended up going into the army and met her to be husband.
I guess it's for the better that I'm too old to be dating military joining age girls now, heh.
