So, out of a sudden, I'm feeling so extremely guilty about being horny (although of course this is something I have no control over)

I come from a house in which sex is very taboo, and it's something to be ashamed of, and something you should only do and think of when you're married. I don't want to get married and I used to be so chill thinking about sex out of wedlock, but now just the fact of being horny is filling me with so much guilt I can't think of anything else

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JPWhoo · 36-40, M

There’s nothing wrong with sex out of wedlock. How does it hurt anybody? It doesn’t. In fact, it’s a good idea, it helps you know what kind of partner you want to be with. The Bible doesn’t even say that premarital sex is wrong.

nothereforpeople · F

@JPWhoo I know. I'm just unable to control the guilt right now and unable to do anything about the sexual excitement. It's very intense but I feel like I'm all tied up and can't even touch myself to release the tension

JPWhoo · 36-40, M

@nothereforpeople But there’s no reason for the guilt, let it go. Why can’t you touch yourself?

melbeacher · 61-69, M

@nothereforpeople Masturbate and give yourself a release !