Should I get to know a man who lives an hour away?

The man I want to get to know more lives about an hour away. I am currently employed 5 minutes away from my house so I really don't want to move. He mentioned that he doesn't picture himself moving away from the area he lives in now. If I were to get serious with this man, would that be a problem down the road. Would neither one of us be flexible in moving? Is this something I should get deeper in conversation with him first, go on more dates? How can I address this concern. I don't want to waste my time if neither one of us want to move, but then I

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CommandLine · 61-69, M

Go on more dates and see if you think he is the right man for you. If you do, then ask him if he would be willing to move to be nearer you.
Consider your position carefully and if you think you may be able to get a job near him.
Do not jump before you have looked at all the angles.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@CommandLine what angles should I look at

CommandLine · 61-69, M

@Fifidog It seems that you like this guy, so that's a good start.
If you find yourself wanting to see him more, you could try having a short break in his area and see if you like the area. See if there is somewhere you could work etc.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@CommandLine great idea thanks! What happens if I don’t like the area

CommandLine · 61-69, M

@Fifidog Get him to do the same if he is willing and see if he can find a job in your area.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@CommandLine good idea let’s see what the future holds!

CommandLine · 61-69, M

@Fifidog Hope it all goes well for you. Good luck.