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Should I get to know a man who lives an hour away?

The man I want to get to know more lives about an hour away. I am currently employed 5 minutes away from my house so I really don't want to move. He mentioned that he doesn't picture himself moving away from the area he lives in now. If I were to get serious with this man, would that be a problem down the road. Would neither one of us be flexible in moving? Is this something I should get deeper in conversation with him first, go on more dates? How can I address this concern. I don't want to waste my time if neither one of us want to move, but then I
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th3r0n · 41-45, M
An hour isn't far to travel to see a loved one if you both have a car

My best friend lived in the same apartment complex with me when we met and lives about an hour away from where I've stayed lately and I see her nearly every day, usually several hours a day if not most of the day

I would move to anywhere but the pit of Hell to be with her, but an hour is nothing

And if you wind up getting married you can live on the edge of the area you live in now and commute until you find a better job (take your time to find better) in that area

I've also driven 45+ minutes to work daily before, gas is expensive now but other than that it's not that big of a deal if the pay is right on the job