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Kodel · 26-30, M
I definitely do agree with that, but there's many more facets to it than that. Men for the most part, are the same as they have always been, except perhaps slightly less cultured than older times.
Some women are trying to act like men, being as promiscuous as men, forging career paths, being independent etc. Sadly, elements of this do go against female biological imperatives. In saying that, women can do whatever they want and I'm definitely not saying they can't, or even that they shouldn't, but there needs to be an acknowledgement of the ramifications.
Women can actually lose their ability to pair bond with men if they are exceedingly promiscuous because men and women connect in different ways. Women connect on an intimate level much quicker than men. Men connect after being intimate with a single woman over time so it's not quite as damaging if men sleep around. Although if you talk to enough men, you'll realise that not as many of them sleep around as society might have you think.
Women also remove their financial dependency on men when they forge careers which, in my opinion is wonderful. I think most men would be happy with the idea of only having to spend some money on their female partner rather than most of their money. The problem is that some women developed an attraction to the financial provision of men which is extremely unhealthy. Not only is it fickle, but it's not an attraction to anything of substance.
In essence, in the last 30 years or so, some women gradually lost sight of what the true values of men were. Strength, courage, fortitude, resourcefulness, ambition, creativity, innovation and the like. Not to mention the unique perspective that men have on things. Essentially some women learnt how to be attracted to what men provide rather than who they are. As a result, they set themselves up for failure as a man doesn't necessarily work to build an empire or to acquire riches. A man works for what he truly loves in the world. A woman can be a part of that if she actually sees who he is. The provision that may come off that is not a sturdy foundation for a relationship.
Feminism was definitely important to bring women onto equal playing field with men but now it definitely does seem like some of them are trying to force an equal outcome scenario; where men are put through the same trials that women were put through historically. To me, feminism in today's day and age is simply a reminder that men at their core love true women and do want to make society better for them in comparable ways to how women make society better for men.
Apologies for the length but I did have a few thoughts to add. 😁
Some women are trying to act like men, being as promiscuous as men, forging career paths, being independent etc. Sadly, elements of this do go against female biological imperatives. In saying that, women can do whatever they want and I'm definitely not saying they can't, or even that they shouldn't, but there needs to be an acknowledgement of the ramifications.
Women can actually lose their ability to pair bond with men if they are exceedingly promiscuous because men and women connect in different ways. Women connect on an intimate level much quicker than men. Men connect after being intimate with a single woman over time so it's not quite as damaging if men sleep around. Although if you talk to enough men, you'll realise that not as many of them sleep around as society might have you think.
Women also remove their financial dependency on men when they forge careers which, in my opinion is wonderful. I think most men would be happy with the idea of only having to spend some money on their female partner rather than most of their money. The problem is that some women developed an attraction to the financial provision of men which is extremely unhealthy. Not only is it fickle, but it's not an attraction to anything of substance.
In essence, in the last 30 years or so, some women gradually lost sight of what the true values of men were. Strength, courage, fortitude, resourcefulness, ambition, creativity, innovation and the like. Not to mention the unique perspective that men have on things. Essentially some women learnt how to be attracted to what men provide rather than who they are. As a result, they set themselves up for failure as a man doesn't necessarily work to build an empire or to acquire riches. A man works for what he truly loves in the world. A woman can be a part of that if she actually sees who he is. The provision that may come off that is not a sturdy foundation for a relationship.
Feminism was definitely important to bring women onto equal playing field with men but now it definitely does seem like some of them are trying to force an equal outcome scenario; where men are put through the same trials that women were put through historically. To me, feminism in today's day and age is simply a reminder that men at their core love true women and do want to make society better for them in comparable ways to how women make society better for men.
Apologies for the length but I did have a few thoughts to add. 😁