My husband turned off my alarm clock

He made me late for work. I work 3 jobs and sometimes he complains that I don't sleep in the bed with him that much but then everytime I try shit like this happens. I've been late 3 times this month so its really serious.
I was late for my online job because he turned off the alarm in the room before I heard it.
Says he was between sleep and wake so there is nothing he could do.
He did not apologize. Claims that I should always set two alarms which I know but since I told him to set the one on his side of the bed I was depending on it. I feel alseep before setting my phone.
Pisses me off so much. Never takes things to heart.

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black4white · 56-60, M

You are making this situation more complicated then it should be...first off you know he is going to do this and feels this way and it sucks i know.
1. move the alarm clock to YOUR side of the bed.
2. read what @Scribbles said
3. get a second if needed

Good luck but this should not be a matter to argue over...if anything use it as a learning lesson and move on :-) Good luck

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@black4white Its not everday that I rely on him. I fell asleep before setting my phone. It happens from time to time when totally exhausted. Its not my daily plan to rely on him.

black4white · 56-60, M

@REMsleep Just know that when you do ..its a VERY good chance this is going to happen it appears.... learn from your mistakes ...this is on YOU :-) stay stong