My husband turned off my alarm clock

He made me late for work. I work 3 jobs and sometimes he complains that I don't sleep in the bed with him that much but then everytime I try shit like this happens. I've been late 3 times this month so its really serious.
I was late for my online job because he turned off the alarm in the room before I heard it.
Says he was between sleep and wake so there is nothing he could do.
He did not apologize. Claims that I should always set two alarms which I know but since I told him to set the one on his side of the bed I was depending on it. I feel alseep before setting my phone.
Pisses me off so much. Never takes things to heart.

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DoubleRings · 51-55, F

My hubby did something similar but I wasn’t late for work (I don’t think) was a long time ago. Often times we take naps and I will ask him if he set an alarm - he will say yes. Except he doesn’t then we sleep in and wake up late. I stopped depending on him at all. I have a Fitbit now and I set the alarm on that so it wakes me up personally without even disturbing him.

He’s also the kind that doesn’t take anything to heart. Ever.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@DoubleRings Yes you are right but I work until I get so tired that I nearlt just fall out. I knew depending on him gets me burned. I knew it.

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

@REMsleep yeah! I know the feeling. I forget why, but one time it was important not to oversleep and was so mad I also depended on him. There’s prob a post somewhere in my profile about that very instance bc I remember being so mad. And it was one of those times I prob said “are you SURe you set an alarm?” (To avoid later disappointment) nope shoulda set my own!

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@DoubleRings Seems you know exactly how I feel☝🏾