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Sometimes I wonder if I'm really as horrible as some people tell me I am

Or if I pick bad people to be attracted to 😅

I mean, it's like half and half... And I do get horrible sometimes.

But I don't want to just lay down and apologise anymore
Selah ·
You just need someone who likes your brand of horrible. Men are horrible and yet women worship them every day. Who cares lmao.
caccoon · 36-40
@Selah 🤣 truth. We're all capable of being shitheads
Kick em.. nobody needs naysayers . Or were they joking?
caccoon · 36-40
@SStarfish nah they weren't joking. Maybe we just can't get along with everyone. But yeah it's a closer relationship thing, where people really tell me I'm garbage and it sucks haha
Oh 😳@caccoon
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I think most people can relate at one time or another. Sometimes habitually choosing toxic people and toxic situations results in becoming toxic as well. That’s where the catch phrase ‘toxic’ is most accurate — when the unhealthy nature of things is a contaminant. If you notice yourself reacting in unhealthy ways that’s kinda the cue to end it, not keep at it.
caccoon · 36-40
@WhateverWorks you're so right! And I am learning this. It's nice to have confirmation 🥰
RadioDust · 36-40, M
You may appear to be horrible to some but you have to ask yourself do you think you're horrible? Only your own reflection of opinion of yourself can question that
caccoon · 36-40
@RadioDust but I think it's so hard to see ourselves objectively that I wonder if I am self-absorbed, cruel, etc... But also people that have said these things have sometimes never even spent an actual day with me so
It must be pretty rare that you get horrible because I haven't seen it happen yet.
caccoon · 36-40
@NerdyPotato it just typically happens within relationships. But I also can be an ass to people that are asses haha
It could be the duality of your nature. You need someone along for the ride.
caccoon · 36-40
@DesertFlower I guess we all have it, and it won't jive with some people
HypnoChode · 46-50, M
I think you’re asking the right question.
I hope you arrive at the right conclusion.
caccoon · 36-40
@HypnoChode it's very confusing.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
I consider your dogs as better judges than most people so there is no way your horrible.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
definitely bad people, not you
Dude nah.

Just nah. 😑
MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F
You are horrible person the most genuine terrible person
MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F
I’m kidding you are a genuine person
MethDozer · M
Probably not
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