Confronting my BF

My bf told me he had this hot new girl follower on social media. He said I should have friends like her cause she’s good looking. I added her and she blocked me. He told me he messaged her and thanked her for the follow. Today we were laying down together and when he went to go message someone on there, I noticed her name wasn’t on the list of the people he recently talked to, which means he deleted the messages. I’m wondering if I should confront him about this and how can I start the conversation. Straightforward? Ask him what they talked about? Just let it go?

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REMsleep · 41-45, F

Your bf sounds like a jerk. You need to work on your self esteem. I am not asking anyone to like me nor explain their behaviors unless its really unclear.
Its clear that he deleted his message to her. Its clear he is overjoyed at her follow.
Girl do what you want but why look all crazy questioning a guy about who he converses with. Thats lame and he dosen't have to tell you the truth.
Make your own choice from the actions and behaviors that you see. Know your worth.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@REMsleep that’s a good point. So if that happened to you what would you do

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Fifidog I would just wait and see. I give people exactly what they give me. I don't worry about the things that I can't control or the things I don't know but I pay very close attention to what I do know and what I can see. People will generally tell on themselves.
I wouldn't give my power away by begging for his time nor his attention. Thats draining.
He must understand that he is not the only man on earth. You won't die if hes not around. He must know this.