Confronting my BF

My bf told me he had this hot new girl follower on social media. He said I should have friends like her cause she’s good looking. I added her and she blocked me. He told me he messaged her and thanked her for the follow. Today we were laying down together and when he went to go message someone on there, I noticed her name wasn’t on the list of the people he recently talked to, which means he deleted the messages. I’m wondering if I should confront him about this and how can I start the conversation. Straightforward? Ask him what they talked about? Just let it go?

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

Thé fact your bf told you that you should have friends like her cuz she’s good looking is fucked up. Wth at kind of a comment is that for a guy to make to his gf? Mindblowing that you didn’t kick him to the curb right after that insult

sirenofthesea · F

This is why I just want my own little cottage by myself, no husband, no bf, just me baking cakes and writing poetry, peering out to the sea. Can not wear make up, and be fat if I want, and get old too. I just think partners are nothing but a headache. He obviously has the hots for her and is messaging her. What’s to say to him, just leave him. Your heart will repair and you will be free.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

Your bf sounds like a jerk. You need to work on your self esteem. I am not asking anyone to like me nor explain their behaviors unless its really unclear.
Its clear that he deleted his message to her. Its clear he is overjoyed at her follow.
Girl do what you want but why look all crazy questioning a guy about who he converses with. Thats lame and he dosen't have to tell you the truth.
Make your own choice from the actions and behaviors that you see. Know your worth.