Communication Please
When you don’t say what you need to say it eventually comes out and when it does it’s fueled by strong emotion and the reaction won’t match the current circumstances.
I’ve been dating this guy for two months and all weekend I’ve just felt sad around him, I couldn’t pin point why until this morning. He changed towards me, or isn’t bringing something up that’s bothering him. Because today in most of our conversations he would make it out as me being wrong, and then when we were going to the store, which I wasn’t thrilled about, I ask about the way we’re taking and he freaks out on me and says “why don’t I just take you home if you are going to question everything I do” that was only the second thing I said during the car ride. He’s clearly having some issues he’s not sharing, and taking it out on me which I told him was not going to happen. Now I’m in this weird limbo not sure where we stand. He’s never treated me that way before so I’ll give him another chance, but he’s going to have to be the one to make the next move which better include what he’s going through and an awareness of his actions towards me or we’re done.
I’ve been dating this guy for two months and all weekend I’ve just felt sad around him, I couldn’t pin point why until this morning. He changed towards me, or isn’t bringing something up that’s bothering him. Because today in most of our conversations he would make it out as me being wrong, and then when we were going to the store, which I wasn’t thrilled about, I ask about the way we’re taking and he freaks out on me and says “why don’t I just take you home if you are going to question everything I do” that was only the second thing I said during the car ride. He’s clearly having some issues he’s not sharing, and taking it out on me which I told him was not going to happen. Now I’m in this weird limbo not sure where we stand. He’s never treated me that way before so I’ll give him another chance, but he’s going to have to be the one to make the next move which better include what he’s going through and an awareness of his actions towards me or we’re done.
36-40, M
