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The other night, I hooked up with the guest of a guest at my sister’s birthday party. 😳 It was an exhilarating experience, to say the least. We’ve been texting off-and-on since. 📱

Since we’re well-acquainted, I invited her to hang out at my sister’s place again this weekend, lol. But she said she doesn’t want to commit to anything with me and is basically categorically not up for seeing me again anytime soon. 😯 Oof. 😬

In all fairness, she’s a bit younger than me. 24 while I’m 31. I honestly thought my one-night stand days we long behind me. I think they are and that was just pure luck. 😅 But she’s in her prime and wants to fool around while she can.

And I respect that, completely! I’m not going to judge her and I hope anyone who reads this doesn’t either. 😒 If anything, I feel silly for expecting more of her when I shouldn’t have. It was a one-night stand! 🤣

Sure, she gave me her number and all, but what, do I expect to become her main lay or something? That was awful silly of me and now I’m just embarrassed. 😓
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Maybe try just texting her if you wanna fuck again & thats it 🤷 asking her to hang out at your sister's sounds like a date so I can see why that put her off. It's a minefield out there 😅
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Ducky wait, there's swinging involved? 😅 Like actually swapping partners & stuff? Tbh I'm unfamiliar with that territory too lol
Ducky · 31-35, F
@ChiefJustWalks My wife is hoping to get involved next time. 😶
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Ducky aww well that sounds fun & all 😌 I didn't realize you were married lol.
But yeah hopefully you're able to fool around again & keep things light & fun 🙏
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
I agree with Chief....your sister's place is probably not the place she's going to feel comfortable going to for another rendezvous.
Going to your sister's seems like you're sending a message that she's with you.
Wait a little while before suggesting meeting up again....she was interested enough to give you her number and initiate texting, but she's probably a little reluctant to commit to any kind of regular liaison.
When some time has elapsed, try suggesting somewhere else, either just you and her or with just your wife....preferably somewhere she'll see as more neutral rather than a place connected to your family circle.
She's probably feeling a little strange about this, and doesn't want to be in a position of being either your girlfriend or your regular booty call.
Ducky · 31-35, F
@DragonFruit That makes sense. Gotta think less like a dater and more like a swinger. 😅
Ducky · 31-35, F
Derpasaurus
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
If that's what she wants to do just letter if it was good like you said it was she'll be back and when she comes back blow her mind
Ducky · 31-35, F
@Bklynbadboy12 That’s awful nice. 😅
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Bang her or don't bang her...but spare us the angst
Ducky · 31-35, F
@HoraceGreenley I have nothing to say to you.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@Ducky All evidence to the contrary
bellybuttonfan17 · 36-40, M
Gah don't be stressed about it!
MellyMel22 · F
Well screw her
Ducky · 31-35, F
@MellyMel22 Maybe again, eventually. 😜
MellyMel22 · F
@Ducky
😌 enjoy the fun 😃
Ducky · 31-35, F
@Teggy Oof.
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Ducky · 31-35, F
@bleach Like I said: I’ll tell you when you’re older.

 
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